Wednesday, February 18, 2009

In the early morning of February 18, we lost a truly great man.

We lost a husband, a father, a brother, a mentor, a friend, and a son.

Dennis was an incredible giver & brought joy into every life he touched. We know he is in a better place, but he will be truly missed.

We dedicate this site to an amazing man. Here you can share your feelings with his family, share a story, or just let us know what he meant to you.

May God bless you Dennis, and may God bless each of us who will mourn your absence.


Please click "Comments" below.

81 comments:

  1. Oh this has been one of the hardest days of my life, realizing that I won't be seeing Dennis again until we meet in Heaven. He was such a great man who lifted everyones spirits and made this life more pleasent for all that knew him. Many many tears are shed today, our world has lost a great man, Many many celebrations are today in Heaven, A good and faithful servant has arrived. I love you Carrillo Family, may God comfort you. Tracey Smith

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  2. Dennis,
    You were an incredible man and an unbelievable blessing in my life. I remember the first time I met you in Spring Valley over 19 years ago. You wore a t-shirt with tie printed on it :) There is a little "rebel" in me as well, so I immediately knew we would be friends. We spent the last 19 years traveling the living rooms, the hotel rooms, and eventually the world together. Now you are one trip up on me, but I know I will see you again one day.
    Although you are gone, you will never be forgotten. God Bless you Dennis, Your friend, Lance

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  3. A day you wish would never come...but it does. I miss you so much already my friend. With tear filled eyes I write this note to let you know that although I know you are at peace and in a better place, my selfish nature misses you terribly and wishes you were still with us. I love you so much and want you to know how much you meant to me and my family. Although you are gone, I feel a certain sense of peace because I know your faith and that you are a saved man. What a blessing that is! I'll do the best I can to help take care of your family buddy. May God's peace be with you. Philip

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  4. You have no idea how many lives you have touched. It would definitely not be like you to even think about it like that. Dennis you were so giving and such a comfortable guy to be around. You were always thre serving others and always there witha kind word. Even to those of us that were tough to be nice to :)

    You blessings and your legacy live on in your beautiful family, and I know you will be watching over them yourself. Enjoy yourself Dennis, you are pain free and in Gods hands now. we'll see you soon enough, until then thank you for all the great memories.

    Love Mike and Amy Wallen

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  5. I've shaken your hand , Ive listened to you share life stories and seen how you've touched the lives of those around you. You surrounded yourself with great leaders , and in turn you also became one. A man who Loved his wife and kids and a man who always seem to raise the bar of excellance whenever you had a chance. Thank you so much for the awesome example you've set for the next generation of Carrillo's as well as the next generation of Leaders.Your Legacy will carry on!!
    I know you just heard it this morning from Jesus Himself , But I also want to say " Well done my good and faithful servant ..."
    Brad P. and family

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  6. Wow I couldn't believe it when I got the news this morning that Dennis had passed away. He always had an incredible smile on his face, always trying to make your life more comfortable. We had a conversation one time, just when I had gotten back from Israel and how he really wanted to go. Well he is on the ultimate trip to the land Jesus walks. And for all us left behind we are saddend to loose a friend a person who truly did make a difference in our lives. Remember Proverbs 3:5
    All our love,
    Randy and Valorie

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  7. I did not know Dennis very Well although he was in our back yard on his boat at the Marriott downtown I remember his kind words to me Danny you've not been on my Boat have you? I Remember walking away looking foward to seeing his boat, his Zest for life and the Monavie Business was evident even in our brief encounters...I will seek to represent him well until we all meet again, Dennis was a Champion!
    with warm regards to the Family
    Danny

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  8. This morning I had a brief conversation with Ann where she expressed her gratitude for dear friends like Lance Smith and Philip Fredricksen, men who were able to speak with emotion about their friend Dennis and had “just the right things to say” to give meaning and purpose to a life well spent.

    I am so grateful that Dennis had them (and the countless others who will no doubt visit this site in the coming days) to add value, vitality and meaning to his life. He was truly blessed. But I had to chuckle just a little at Ann’s comment that these fine men had “just the right things to say” about Dennis. I chuckled because I thought, “What could one say wrong about Dennis?” To speak of Dennis is to speak of steadfast self-assurance, an enduring belief in the possibilities of other men, an optimistic view of the future, a deep comprehension of love, loyalty and duty. The mere thought of Dennis elevates my perception of the possible and quiets my inner doubts. To say he was loved somehow falls too short of the mark. To say he touched countless lives is barely touching on the incredible story of his life. And, to say that he will be missed barely begins to contemplate the loss represented by his passing.

    He changed my life for the better in more ways than I can enumerate. His legacy of hope and passion, of focus and aspiration, of steadfast devotion and immeasurable compassion lives on in each of us whose lives have been shaped by his too-short time among us.
    - Mike Winsor

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  9. uncle dennis was a great man. He did a lot of good things to help me and my family. You should always think of him and think of all the things he did for every one.

    love McKenzie

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  10. Poem of Life
    Author unknown

    Life is but a stopping place,
    A pause in what's to be,
    A resting place along the road,
    to sweet eternity.
    We all have different journeys,
    Different paths along the way,
    We all were meant to learn some things,
    but never meant to stay...
    Our destination is a place,
    Far greater than we know.
    For some the journey's quicker,
    For some the journey's slow.
    And when the journey finally ends,
    We'll claim a great reward,
    And find an everlasting peace,
    Together with the lord


    Our Love and Prayers are with you.
    Nikolaos & Carina

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  11. I have spent today in a sea of emotion flooded with memories of my friend Dennis and with a heavy heart for Ann, Ashley, Lindsay, their family and those who call him friend. Dennis and Ann have been our friends and mentors for many, many years. Dennis was one of the few people I could talk to that had the ability to know what to say and how to say it in a way that would gently guide and teach. He believed in you so much that you believed in yourself. Dennis always had other people’s best interests in mind, a true servant heart. There were so many times throughout his life that I watched him put himself aside when it was inconvenient, without complaint, to serve others. He was a man of great integrity, character, faith and love… one of the greatest people you could ever know. He was a person always striving for his next best self, what an amazing example. I loved the way he moved through life with an attitude of optimism, hope, and truly loving the moment he was in. Dennis Carrillo was one of those special people who taught you how to be a better friend by being the best friend, a better leader by leading, a better person by really caring. Dennis, although your loss has brought me deep sadness, I am comforted knowing you are free of pain and in a place of pure love. I will never forget you and will be listening. Today I realize that one of the greatest lessons you have taught me is to simply use what I have learned to be the person you saw in me. I will pay it forward and hope and pray that I can help others as you have helped me. My friend, I love you and miss you. Until we meet again…..
    Micki

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  12. A great man with a big heart.He will be missed by many.I'm greatful and a better man for having known Dennis. God Bless Ann and the Girls.

    Love Always,

    Russ & Robin Whelan

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  13. Dennis,

    I was totally caught off guard when I received
    the message this morning about your passing on.
    I have been thinking all day about how much we are all going to miss you. You have left us a little too early, but I am comforted knowing you are with our Heavenly Father.

    You have been a friend, mentor and servant to so many - I am truly honored to have been a friend of yours. You never hesitated to serve others, whether it was convenient or not. You were always there for all of us.

    I will remember you always as one who loved life and lived it to the fullest. I never got to go fishing with you, (I was never the greatest fisherman) but I will look forward to the day when we will meet again in a place where the fish grow big and every cast
    brings in the fighter of a lifetime.

    We love you,
    Jerrel & Leslie

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  14. We are heart broken by this news . . . We are so glad that Dennis is in Heaven with Jesus. Dennis made a wonderful impact on mark and I's life and he always had cheer for us everytime we spent time with him. We loved his laugh because it was mischievious and playful and very sincere. Ann, Ashley and Lindsay . . . Mark and I are praying for your comfort in this difficult time of being without Dennis as a wonderful husband that he obviously was and an amazing supportive father that he obviously was. We do not take lightly your burden. You have our support and our love. Love, Mark and Jill Carlisle

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  15. What a shock to hear such a good man has fallen. I remember every time I saw Dennis there was always a smile on his face.Such energy and passion for his family and friends.He is at peace now and is looking down and keeping an eye on us all.Dennis we will miss you and god be with you as we know he is
    Irv Collins

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  16. For as long as I can remember, Dennis was always there. There was something about Dennis that made me love being around him, He had this special light within him that inspired me to be a more loving, and caring person. I feel so privledged to have been part of his life here on earth. My prayers are with him and his family.
    "The Spirit gives life: the flesh counts for nothing." John 6:63
    Love you Dennis I will be seeing you again soon, Kendra Smith

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  17. Dennis,
    We will miss your smiling face and great attitude but we know we will see you again
    in a few years. Keep a place at your favorite restaurant for me.
    You have been a great friend and mentor for over 15 years-even though we didn't always follow your directions. I talked with Clayton tonight and we talked about the first time we met at his house.
    You have always been a shining example of serving everyone even when it wasn't convenient. It was always a joy to serve with you because of your great attitude. Our prayers are with Ann, Lindsay and Ashley and know that we are here to help all we can.
    We had a few ski trips together and on Monday
    I will take a special run at Mammoth just for you and say a prayer.
    God Bless a great husband, father and friend.
    Bob and Marcia

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  18. We are truly shocked and saddened by the news of Dennis' passing. We have lost a wonderful man today. We will always remember Dennis for his willingness to give and serve others, for the way he lit up a room, as a wonderful husband and father,and as a dear friend. Dennis we will miss you, but know you are in a much better place. Our prayers are with Ann, Lindsay, Ashley and the rest of the family.

    All our love,
    Gary and Dalean Holloway

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  19. Dennis,

    We may all wish we took more time to tell you how much you impacted our lives for the better. For all the years we have known you, we can not recall an ill word of anyone ever said from your tongue. Your positive and optimistic attitude was more contagious than you may have ever realized. We have always admired your zest and your zeal for life and we will never forget that big smile you openly shared with everyone you met. We respected your loyalty to your family, friends, and business partners and the inspiring words of encouragement you genuinely shared is marked in our memories forever. You will always be remembered and admired; and for Holly and me, our lives are forever blessed to have known you.

    Thank you Lord for the gift of Dennis Carrillo in our lives. We know he is with You now, safe and at home. And, Dennis thank you for shinning your light so bright with all of us.

    Nick and Holly Scarcella

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  20. Oh Dennis...
    Our hearts ache with the loss we all share.
    You taught us so much - as much by what you said as what you didn't say - you taught by example. You were our mentor, teacher & comforter - an amazing listener who had the gift of listening, analyzing, and then cutting to the heart of the matter - you said it like it was.
    You were a man of your word - one who 'walked his talk' - if you said you were going to do something or be somewhere, you were there - you've showed up in the middle of a torrential downpour, with a broken ankle, after just having a fish hook removed from your foot. At first we thought you were just a little nuts, but then we figured out you were a man with a passion, a dream and goals - again teaching by example.
    You and Ann were a team and a couple that the more we knew, the more we loved, wanted to hang with and get to know - your family quickly became our family.
    You forever changed our view of how we looked at people and the world - you taught us how to dream & gave us hope, - made us believe we could achieve anything if we wanted it badly enough & worked hard enough.
    You were outspoken with your testamony on how you came to the Lord - you were one of the first Christian gentleMan we knew.
    You taught our family many things - I will miss your great hugs, Connor will miss how you treated him as an equal, & John will miss fishing with you. It is comforting to know that you're now with the greatest Fisherman of all & you've achieved the ultimate goal.
    You are in our hearts forever,
    John, Mary Anne & Connor Breen

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  21. Incredible, what a Legacy, Thank God for Dennis Carrillo.

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  22. I never saw Dennis without a great big smile on his face. He always seemed up and bright. He was definately full of love. I pray for his family and friends left behind and remind them that the bible says in 1 Corinthians 15:55 "Where, O death, is thy victory? Where, O death, is thy sting?"

    Dennis walks with the Lord now and the Lord has beaten death for us. Go with Jesus, Dennis, you will be greatly missed now, but we will be together again.

    Do not stand by my grave and weep.
    I am not there, I do not sleep.
    I am a thousand winds that blow.
    I am a diamond glint on snow.
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
    I am the gentle autumn rain.
    When you awake in the morning hush,
    I am the swift uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circling flight.
    I am the soft starshine at night.
    Do not stand by my grave and cry.
    I am not there... I did not die.

    Goodbye for now Dennis, we love you!!!

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  23. A Truley Great Man
    Where to begin... Denn was like a father to me. He taught me had to be a man and waht a family can be. I was going down the wrong road and he rescue me. If it was not for dennis and ann i would not be here today and for that i owe you my life. He maded me want more in life, he made me want to be more like him. He talked like he wasn't afraid of anything. He could accomplish anything. He was a man of his word. I wish there were more ment out there like him it would make a better world. He touched a lot of lifes. One thing i respected him for was he would do anything for anyone and ask for nothing in return. I mean its like he knew if he came into your it would be better. He got satisfaction from seeing you do better. My selfish ways wish you were still here with us but i know you are in a better place a place you deserve. I dont think i have ever met a man that had so much confidence and so much knowledge. If there is 2 things you have taught will carry through us is, You can have anything you want if you put your mind to it and the comprassion to help another have a better life. I love you Uncle Dennis you have taught me a lot. Yo will never be forgotten, i will never let you be forgotten. We need more of you here. All I ask Jesus is take good care of him until we meet again.
    Jonathan Winsor

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  24. Ann, Ashley and Lindsey - my prayers are with you all and the entire Carrillo family. I feel so far away as I work in Dallas these last 2 weeks of the project. I am very sad for selfish reasons yet very happy that he is at peace. All of you have touched my life for the better. I never thought I wouldn't see him or hear him say hello again. As Dennis has always extended a serving hand to me, I do the same to you. There are a lot of us here for you if you need us. A big hug to you all. Thank you Dennis for being a part of my life. Fuji

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  25. Wow! Just 2 weeks ago we were all talking in Philip and Lori's home. Dennis you truly made the world a better place. Ann you and you children are in our thoughts and prayers.

    peace
    Virgil and Lisa Cruse

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  26. Dennis,
    The day I handed you an "ad pack" that shared the idea of a business opportunity, changed our lives forever. Gene and I had no idea what a journey it would take us on. We came to know you, Ann, and the girls and we will forever be grateful for all the personal growth you offered us. Heaven is a better place because you have truly entered the Kingdom. May God's peace, stength, comfort, and joy be poured out on Ann, Ashley, and Lindsey. You made an incredible difference in this world and touched the lives of all who knew you.
    With great love and respect for all you did,
    Gene and Charlene

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  27. All my best of the Carillo family today. I want you to know that Dennis touched more lives than the obvious ones...We are well below and "cross-line" but I always enjoyed his stories and smile. I pray God's blessings of peace for all of you. Joe and Susan Prosapio

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  28. In our sorrow we are reminded that we should not be content with the ease of a passing day. Dennis has ascended to the glorious reunion with his Lord above, and from his mortal cage he has winged his flight to the Paradise of Matchless Splendor. His prayers for each of us will continue to touch our lives. Let's remember to live in a manner that matches that blessing.

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  29. It is with deep regret that hear of the loss of a dear friend, Dennis Carrillo. We will miss his contagious laugh, his joyful spirit, and the encouragement he brought to us and so many. His servant's heart will live on in the hearts of those who got to experience Dennis. Our prayers go out to the entire Carrillo family.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Curtis and Debbie Spolar

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  30. Dennis,

    You and your family have been great friends of my family for many years. Some of my earliest memories are of visiting your dental office as a child. You have made a huge impact on many lives during your time here on earth and we are all truly blessed to have had the chance to know you. Ann, Ashley, and Lindsey have a very special angel in heaven now. May God bless your soul and your family as well. You will truly be missed.

    Much love,

    Jeanna (Hokenson) Ortiz

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  31. Dennis, I can not believe that you are gone.
    Memories and tears of you have flooded my mind for the past 24 hours. Jerrel and I have had alot of special time together with you and Ann traveling to different places like Lake Powell, Cancun, Hawaii... One of my favorite memories of you is when we were up in yellowstone park snowmobiling. I remember looking back to see if we were all together,
    and there bringing up the rear was you and Ann. And the reason that it was so memorable is because right about the time we all stopped and glanced back, it was like it happened in slow motion, you and Ann tipped over on your snowmobile in the deep powder... We all started laughing.. It was such a great memory. Everytime I even think of snowmobiling I think of you and Ann and smile.

    Dennis, I have a real hard time expressing my feelings and that is why it has taken me a whole day to post this message. I was looking for the right thing to say. But I guess there is no right words to say. Everything about you was remarkable... You were a loyal husband, an incredible father and an awesome mentor and friend to so many. In all the years that I have known you I have never heard you speak an unkind word to or about anyone. That alone speaks volumes about your character.

    You are and will be truly missed. Our hearts go out to Ann, Lindsay, Ashley and your
    entire family. We all lost a very special friend. Dennis I love you, we know you are in a better place and I look forward to the time we meet again.

    Leslie and Jerrel Emery

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  32. Dennis and Ann,

    These two names go together. It is with much love and a sad heart I write this.I remember the first time I met Dennis and Ann from stage at a business seminar. The first time Rhonda and I met you was the same as the last time I saw both of you.(Always smiling) Dennis was always a bright light, always someone who is inspiring, and always a positive motivator. I remember one time in particular at a business meeting in front of thousands of people. One of your daughters were singing the National Anthem. I remember looking over at Dennis and Ann watching them both cry with tears of pride. We not only miss you Dennis as a friend but also as a great example of how to be loving husband and a proud dad. If the gates of heaven have greeters I know that there will be a new volunteer and we will see you again. We all will miss you in person but will have great memories of the positive impact you had on all of our lives.

    Love and great respect,

    Travis and Rhonda Ballew

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  33. We thought he was taking our sister, but he was just declaring himself to be a brother to us. We thought the marriage vows were weak, but he was just waiting for real commitment to take possession of him, and when it did, it proved stronger than all vows. We thought he was a hopeless skeptic, but he was just waiting for more evidence in the lives of more believers, and when he found it, he added some evidence of his own. We thought he was too hard on her and that it couldn’t work, but he was just waiting to learn about personality types and gender roles and teamwork and forgiveness, and when he did, he began to teach us too.

    Dennis Carrillo brought tears when he entered our family. He now brings us tears by leaving it behind. He entered a stranger and a stumbling block. He leaves a leader and a rock, even a hero. Though always willing to look in from the outside if need be, Dennis has played a central and positive role in every major event in our extended family life for nearly four decades. We have all come to rely on him, respect him, thank God for him, and love him.

    Dennis knew not only how to “be there” but how to create a “there” in order to be there. Now our Savior, who has been preparing a There for Dennis, has come to take him There. Though through blood and tears, the Savior Jesus has won. His will is good. His will has been done. His will is to save. He has saved Dennis forever.

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  34. Such an awesome example of a Christian man!

    Dennis will not be forgotten, his legacy will live on. He touched so many lives and we will never really know how his life will be used to further the kingdom.

    We have so many wonderful memories with Dennis and Ann, I was looking at pictures last night and he was always smiling! Following Dennis on mopeds in Hawaii and ending up on the freeway, snorkeling in Cancun, dozens of crispy cream donuts at 3:00 in the morning. So many great memories!

    Dennis loved us.. no matter what. What an example of Christs love. He and Ann taught us by example what a marriage should look like, how to lift each other up. We are better people because we knew him.

    I can't wait to see him again when we are reunited in heaven and sharing memories!
    We will miss you Dennis and our hearts ache for Ann and the girls as it is so hard to be separated from those we love.

    With deepest sympathy and much love,
    Cindy and Greg Flannery

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  35. Ann, We believe that hope survives,
    love prevails, tears cleanse,
    Memories comfort, faith soothes,
    good thoughts reassure,
    and that our belief that Dennis is in a better place calms the heart.
    Dennis will live on in the hearts of those he touched.
    May the support of family, friends, and the love of God bring you comfort in the days ahead.
    You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Carol McKinney

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  36. Ann, Ashley, and Lindsey -
    May God hold you and comfort you as you walk through this valley of life. If there is anything I am sure of, it is that Dennis is most definetly alive and well and with Jesus at this very moment. Oh what a wonderful place to be! What comfort we can take in knowing that this isn't goodbye, for we have the promise that we will see him again. That doesn't mean we will not miss him, or feel the pain of his being gone from our presence.
    Mike and I didn't know Dennis really well since he was crossline from us, but EVERY time we saw him, he had a huge grin on his face. He was the nicest guy you could ever meet and I can't recall a single time I ever saw him down or upset. It was so obvious how much he loved his family! He loved you so very much Ann and was so proud of his girls. Dennis was a special man and he will be greatly missed!
    Jennifer and Mike Mizicko

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  37. We were shocked to hear of Dennis' passing. We just saw he and Ann a few weeks ago at the Fredricksen's. He was a true leader who touched numerous lives, many of them crossline. I liked Dennis because he always had a smile on his face. He was always very kind to Sandi and I. His passing leaves a big hole in all of our lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ann and the family.

    Andy & Sandi Cesare

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  38. Our hearts are numb with grief over the sudden and painful passing of our dear friend and mentor Dennis! Our love and prayers for, you, Ann, and the girls are magnified by the influence of both of your lives. You touched and affected Marilyn and I for the bettering of their lives and our continuing lives affected one by many! We have been so affected and positively influenced by their message and example. When Dennis, Ann and I sat down (when I was Dennis's financial plnanner), to map out a financial plan for them and which, after several sessions I had to tell them that the reality of their situation was, even with a dentist's income, they had to save twice as much or cut their dreams and goals in 1/2! After several months they told me they had become involved in something that would more than replace their income and provide the vehicle to make their dreams come true! So be it! They did it and showed Marilyn and I a better tool for ourselves. We will be forever be grateful to them for their love and patience!! Our prayers are with Ann, the girls and all of the family, May the Lord God bless and bring them his peace and perpetual love! In His name and in His spirit, we ask His perpetual love!!!!

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  39. To Dennis and Ann & Family.

    This rain in Eyes my eyes were filled as I found about losing my "Great Mentor" Dennis Carrillo..

    I can remember meeting Dennis and Ann for the first time. In a small apartment, "I had no clue what was going on But I like him" :). Then going to have Rips after the meeting... A friendship born... :).

    Dennis was more than a friend to me, He was my Hero, In his dark suit :) Mentor, Encourager & someone that I trusted ...

    His way of speaking, Learning, his Zest for life a Man with a smile. "I needed that sometimes". Following his upline, being an example for me and my team... He wanted to very best not only for you but the entire Team. His Impact that he made on me will leave countless footsteps in my heart.:)

    The stars and the universe are En less, Timeless,and keep on going and moving. Some of the many princlples of a timeless father of three, and a Extraordinary wife..:), Have taught me forever!!! I will take the time to look up.. As my Mentor Freind, Dennis Carrillo is up somewhere with our God..


    It once said that we have the torch of hope for others.. Dennis I will continue that passing of the Torch as you did for me, with same kind of Integrity, that you have instilled in my heart... We will meet again...

    Love and Respect Roger Linton..

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  40. Hi Ann,

    This is Tami. I wish I could say enough words or feeling towards you and Dennis for what you both have done for Mom and Dad over the years. Despite the "hard" times, you and Dennis were there for them when we (my brothers and I) couldn't. I(we) will always be grateful for Dennis' patience and generosity and willingness to go the extra mile to get Dad going and living again way back in the 80"s.
    Just want you, Ann, to know, Dennis is a truly (and I say "is" on purpose) remarkable person. I will always be eternally grateful to you and Dennis for "all" that you have done for my Mom and Dad. This man....this man,Dennis Carrillo, will always remain to me -- Dad's dentist that didn't' just save his teeth, he saved his life.
    My love, my support and my heart goes out to you, Ashley, Lindsay and the rest of your family.

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  41. It is late in the evening as I scroll thru the
    emails - and - Wow - I really did not get to
    know this Man, this Dennis Carrillo as well as
    I wanted to. A mentor to me, a great smile &
    Friendly persuasion, a "yatchsman", a happy
    guy, a man whom I could reallllly listen too,
    and now, gone too soon. I send out a toast of
    to you sir, of Monavie at its best, a long sip
    of all three bottles, to your legacy, to your
    life, to your American style and to your family, to whom I offer the help in any way
    I am able to do so. As your watch over them
    and the rest of your Monavie family, out there
    in the clouds above us on your "ship of sail",
    smile down on all your friends, for you surely
    are and will be remembered for a very, very
    long time. Your Friend, Paul Maple

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  42. Dennis,
    Thank you for sharing your daughter with me. I am so glad you got to see pictures of your grandaughter before she was born. Every family event was always better with you there. Matter of fact, usually it was me and you watching some game and everyone else doing something else.
    I was not prepared for this at all but I am happy that you have no more pain. I can imagine you tan and strong with the wind in your face as you set out fishing once again on your little dingy. However since you can't help me tile my house now, you better help me when I get there with you. The tile is gold now and it is heavy so I will need your help.
    Dennis, you showed me how to be a better husband. You showed me how to fight back against pain and illness. You showed me how to be a better father. I miss you.
    -Dale
    P.S. What do you think we are gonna do with LT and Darren Sproles?

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  43. Ann & Family,
    We love you and are going to miss Dennis and his great love for all he touched with his incredible smile and attitude. We will always remember the retirement party we attended as we first got to know you as leaders to emmulate and respect. What a giving couple you have been to so many and thank you for that.
    You are in our prayers and hearts forever.
    We are at your service for whatever you may need.
    Love, Brian & Terri Beach

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  44. Ann & Family,
    We love you and are going to miss Dennis and his great love for all he touched with his incredible smile and attitude. We will always remember the retirement party we attended as we first got to know you as leaders to emmulate and respect. What a giving couple you have been to so many and thank you for that.
    You are in our prayers and hearts forever.
    We are at your service for whatever you may need.
    Love, Brian & Terri Beach

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  45. I just got up the nerve to read this blogspot and I am truly blessed by it! Yesterday, we had to start facing many decisions that no one should ever have to face, but especially so hard, so soon. We are preparing for a celebration together for all who can come and we are trying to be true to Dennis as we plan. Things like having Drew Tricoli show up in his Hawaiian shirt and shorts. He and Dennis were always excited if they got to wear shorts and not big boy pants! We know he would not have wanted all of us fussing over him, and he doesn't like being the center of attention-That's my job LOL! So, we hope you come with your smiles and your relaxed clothes- he would like that. I know tears will be shed that day among the laughter, because that's how it's been the last 2 days for us all, but come feeling free to be you and enjoy the fellowship with all who love us. Soon the date and time will be official, it's looking like sometime next weekend on Saturday or Sunday.

    It is beyond my comprehension, the love that has been pouring forth. In the last 2 days
    I have learned so much about the effect of the life Dennis lived on so many. Grown, manly men with tear streaked faces, unable to hide the love they have for him, the shock that he is gone. I love all of you so willing to bear your souls, so willing to be transparent.

    I have already learned in these 2 days that when you all said you love us, it was more true and deeper than I ever let touch my soul.

    I am sure, I will write again, another time.....I will surely be reading these as often as I can.

    Dennis's alarm on his phone just went off for him to take his morning meds that helped him keep his transplanted kidney alive. The gift that gave him 3 and 1/2 more years than his own body could give. I thank God and Karen for the gift of those extra years, and I shut off the alarm that is no longer needed as he has a new body in Christ.

    Thank you all for loving us so well, Ann

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  46. That smile will forever be in our hearts. Dennis - you are one in a million and I have no doubt that you are preparing a wonderful party for us all for when we can meet again. You have touched more lives than you will ever know ... and your legacy will continue to touch many. Thank you, for always saying hello, smiling and laughing with us in the halls! :) Anne, you are as wonderful as he is. Know that you are not alone, or ever will be. You are in our prayers and hearts too.

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  47. Dennis, you were such an incredible man! I thank God for the gift of you. You have made such a positive impact on so many lives. You were such a great example of a truly giving man that loved abundantly! You lived life to the fullest & had a contagious smile. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You will always be remembered. We love you!

    Ann, Lindsey & Ashley - Be at peace knowing that your husband & father was such a blessing to all who came in contact with him. He will be missed greatly, but his voice will live on. He has changed so many people's lives.. so positively & spriitually. You are so lucky to have lived with such an extraordinary man! We love you & may God Bless you!
    Zenen & Darlene Pena

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  48. Dear Anne and the Carillo Family,

    We were so shocked and sad to hear the news about Dennis. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Kevin and Colleen Golden

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  49. Where to begin...
    The email my wife showed me left me a lil stunned, I had to read it about ten times just to make sure I was reading it right, then I still didn't believe it. It took quite a while to sink in, Dennis was so full of life every time I saw him, he was such a blessing! I looked forward to introducing any friends I had with me to him, his smile was contagious! The cd and poem called The Dash come to mind, Dennis really did live a life of meaning, the effect he had on my life will ripple for years to come. He has left something all men hope to leave... a legacy.
    The encouragement and acceptance he has shown me over the last few years are hard to put into words. He accepted me from the first time I met him, something I was definantly not used to. I still have cards and letters from Dennis and Ann enouraging on my desk, and I will cherish each one.
    My heart is eased only because I know that he is walking with Jesus as I write this, or maybe fishing with one of the twelve:)

    Joe & Eliza

    ps Thank you so much, whoever put this blog together, I know I won't be able to say much when we gather to celebrate his life. It is a blessing reading all of the other comments, each one pointing again, to a life well lived, a difference made in so many lives.

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  50. “Pure of Heart”

    Even as followers of Christ, we still struggle with our own mortality. We ponder the finality of death, and sometimes lose sight of the bigger picture. What’s it all about?

    Jesus on the night he was betrayed prayed to his heavenly Father and even asked him to allow there to be some other way, some different path than his scheduled death on the cross. This was the human side of our savior struggling with his own perceived mortality and yet he put all of us FIRST. What an example of being “Pure of Heart”.

    In the 5th Chapter of Matthew Jesus gives us “The Beatitudes” and in verse 8 it says,
    Blessed are the Pure of Heart, for they Shall see God. To be pure of heart means to be free of all selfish intentions and self-seeking desires. When I hear this I think of the Dennis Carrillo I knew and loved. That guy that always had your back. That guy that would put gas in his car and drive anywhere, at any time, in any condition because he wanted to put others FIRST!

    Pure of Heart. What a beautiful goal. How many times have any of us performed any uncomfortable act perfectly free because it was best for someone else? Such an act is pure Love. An act of pure and selfless giving brings happiness to all. This was Dennis Carrillo, a mentor, a friend, a brother in Christ. We are all going to miss him, but we will never forget him. You touched are lives in a special way, and we can never thank you enough. We look forward to the party, and it’s OK to Save Seats at this one!
    Ann, Lindsey, and Ashley we thank you for sharing Dennis with us.
    May the Peace of our Lord be with you.
    Greg and Cindy Flannery

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  51. Although there is little we can say at this time when sorrow has filled your heart, we want you to know our warmest thoughts are with you. How fortunate we are that in our hearts we keep forever the memories of those we love...and the time we shared together.

    With our warmest thoughts and sympathy.
    Emery & Janet Pickard

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  52. An incredible example and inspiration to us all. Thanks for making a difference and fighting the good fight. All men die, but not all men truly live. Ann, Lindsey, and Ashley, our prayers are with you.

    Peace be with you,

    Joel and Maria Burroughs

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  53. Over these last couple days since hearing the news of Dennis, I have stopped and thought of Dennis and the close to 20 years that Kim and I were blessed to call him a friend. Thinking back over the years of all the times we were together with Ann and Dennis, whether it was an seminar, function, emerald trip or just a great trip with the gang, I could always look forward to there smiling faces always and I mean ALWAYS !!! I can honestly say that in my 47 years that I can't say this about any other person. He was a very special man and to have known him you were blessed. I know that many people's lives are enriched today because of the effect that Dennis had on them. Dennis you will be missed here on earth but will be in our mind and hearts. Kim and I love and miss you my friend. All our prayers to you Ann, Ashley and Lindsey.
    Paul and Kim

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  54. Dennis we miss you. We have been privilege to know you and Ann for the last 15 or so years. I remember countless times when Elvia would come up to me and say we have got to get this person or that person around Dennis, because you were that much of an inspiration, A dentist with carpol tunnel (remember cant get fired for misspelling). It was always a positive experience for all of us. As I look back and think of one word that expresses your imprint on us, that word would be Jolly. you have this belly laugh that is incredible, its like it starts from the bottom and by the time it got to your mouth it was just ....Jolly! . I could sit in a room with a thousand people and know right were you and Ann were sitting. When I think of that laugh even right now it makes me laugh, I guess that is what a contagious laugh means. Thank you for playing your role in our lives you will be remembered forever.

    Randy and Elvia

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  55. Dennis, I am sorry to have not known you better than I do - one of those missed opportunities. What I do know of you was from those opportunities I had to hear you speak to a group, relating your growth in business. You taught me a great deal. You see, you and I were sponsored (almost) by the same two wonderful people, but I was taught early not to cross that boundary, and I took me too long to understand why, so the associations we had were always brief. Now I regret that.

    But what I know of you, and what little we shared, has already been related here. It is simply the life you live, and who you are, around everyone. You are always the encouraging, and thoughtful person - the one that always appears very focussed on where you are going, and what you are doing. At the same time, you always appear relaxed, in spite of whatever tension you may be having.

    Know that I am always glad you are there, and miss you when you were not. I had the privilege of attending your freedom party, on campus. I was on the crossover bridge, with many others, and watched as you rode up the hill, standing in the open sunroof of that long white limo. I watched as Ann cut the paper (symbolic) chains off your wrists - now that must have been a REAL joy!

    Ann, Ashley and Lindsey, may God bless you bountifully in all that you do. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Know too that Dennis is with us, continuing to encourage us, and prompt us, to do the things he taught us, and that he did so well. Know that you and Dennis touched our lives, as he did all those around him.

    Paul McKinney

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  56. What a shock, what a loss. I will miss you, Dennis and the impact you made in my life. You and Ann are precious to me and the loss of Dennis a void in my heart. But here is the hope I have...I know - beyond a shadow of doubt that I WILL see you in heaven. That is the hope I have that through Christ we are saved and through Christ we are God's children and our inheritance is a place in heaven with Him. Dennis, you save us all a good seat up there - we're coming Home soon. While you are waiting for us, enjoy the great companionship of Jesus and all the saints, we'll take good care of your family here till we can all meet again. Ann, Lindsay and Ashley and Dale - we love you and are here to walk this difficult road with you. Dennis would want you to enjoy life fully - just as he did - no matter the circumstance, choosing to embrace life to the fullest. Dennis is living his ultimate dream now, may we continue to live ours until we meet UP with him again.

    I love you Ann, Lindsay and Ashley.

    Jeanie Lopez

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  57. Dear Dennis,

    While, for some reason, I did not allow myself to get especially close to you, I respected you immensely. I still respect you. I watched you overcome some of your own foibles and struggles, but still felt I did not 'measure up' to you, especially in the category of 'father'.
    You never wanted me to feel that way.
    You kept trying, kept helping, kept listening, kept believing in my abilities while I doubted myself. You helped me start anew, again and again, over and over, and NEVER showed any frustration or disbelief in me. You are a man who would never consider yourself better than another.
    I couldn't figure out for a little while -- why, since I did not get especially close to you, why was I grieving so? Why am I taking this so hard?. Well, I'll tell you why, and more importantly I will freely share with anyone reading this, why.

    For those of you who don't know this, and even for those of you who do: Dennis and my sister willingly, lovingly, and dedicatedly took my children into their own home for two critical teenage years. They provided for them in more ways than one. My kids are who they are today, due to their mother, myself, and due to Dennis and Ann's tough-love and hard work (they actually studied and read books for the specific purpose of helping my children through an especially challenging period of young life). Ann has since told me that there were times when she witnessed Dennis show a different side of himself she had not had previously seen. It took a compassion, patience and certain softness to hold them accountable while at the same time showing them he loved them, believed in them. I was an emotional father to my children, wavering in my love and support from one day to the next. Dennis was an un-flappable, un-wavering father to them, strong enough not to need THEIR love all of the time (not to care too much what they thought of him). Today, it is safe to say, they hold him in high regard and love him considerably.
    Even more extra-ordinary, Dennis and Ann accomplished all this without dimenishing me as a father in my children's eyes. Today, my kids and I are closer than ever. In large measure, I have Dennis and my sister to thank for that. God proved his love to me by taking such good care of my children through His very human servants named Dennis and Ann Carrillo. When they could not do it all with their own strength, they prayed and trusted God to do the rest.
    This last part is huge to me: Dennis and Ann found a way to allow me to pay back the cost of my childrens' care. They found a way to give me a HUGE hand-UP, not a hand-OUT. This helped me feel that financially, I did my part as a provider, and it gave me a renewed self-respect. Dennis, my gratitude to you is enormous because you, a father yourself, gave THIS father much needed self-esteem.

    Dennis, Ann: I can never thank you enough.
    Ann, I willing take on much hurt, hoping it helps lessen yours.

    Your brother, brother-in-law, and brother in Christ.

    Tom

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  58. To hear about Dennis' passing was mixed emotions for me - as it is whenever I have a fellow believer who passes on. On one hand it was always great to see Dennis smiling and happy and taking a slice out of life - you always knew that he loved you and that he loved people - that part will be greatly missed. On the other hand - knowing that he is with Christ is extremely heart-warming. I can visualize Christ saying to Dennis "Well done my good and faithful servant". What a great legacy. He will be missed.

    Mark Cordner

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  59. Dear Ann, family and friends,
    It was with great disbelief and sorrow to hear of Dennis's passing. Unfortunately, we did not get to know Dennis as well as so many others have eloquently described. But we did get to be around him enough to know what a very special person he was. It is with our greatest sympathy and sorrow that our hearts go out to you, Ann, and all your family and fiends. It must be consoling to know that Dennis touched so many lives so deeply that God surely said, " well done my good and faithful servant." So, here, we mourn, honor and celebrate all the wonderful gifts Dennis brought to this world, and know he will continue to live in our hearts and be lovingly remembered by so many.
    Love, Paul and Pam Locascio

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  60. WOW, this has been a tough couple of days. It's hard to quit thinking about you Dennis and how you got your call home much too soon. You are in heaven, where we all strive to be one day. Darlene and I will always remember you and Ann and how you both were so fun to be around. Always smiling, friendly, serving and kind. I will never forget your retirement party and what a party it was. For many years after that, we saw how much you and Ann loved life. You lived a great one here on earth and touched so many lives. We're so priviledged to have got to known you and you will be missed. Ann and Family, may God comfort you.
    With deepest sympathy, Mike and Darlene

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  61. Dearest Ann,
    So sorry for your loss. What I admire most of Dennis is that at a very young age he knew what he wanted to do in his life. He did it! He also got to enjoy some great friends and family, the best way he knew how, truely a blessing!! What was always for sure is that you guys can sure light up a room, the light has not gone out, because you are there to continue that light. He will be missed! Lots of Love, to you and your family.
    Bill and Diana Meyer

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  62. To say that I am sadden when I read of Dennis passing puts it mildly.
    Though our paths drifted in different directions these past couple of years, both Dennis and Ann remain in my heart.
    I have missed you all.

    Please know, Ann, Ashley, Lindsey as well as your families that you are in our hearts and prayers
    Joy Delle

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  63. I have not known Dennis and Ann for a long time, but I have lived long enough to know good people when I meet them. When I think of Dennis it will always be an image of that smile. Walking around the marina it was always such a pleasure to meet up with Dennis and Ann, really made the day even brighter. Dennis you will be missed and not forgotten. Take care my friend.

    Ken Guyer

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  64. Ann and girls, I have been thru watching you grow in the business, Dennis's retirement and going to Charlenes to pick up tools and products. The after meetings were always highlighted by some more laughter and fun because you two brought that with you wherever you went. Ann you were truly the lucky one to know and love Dennis more then any of us could have, but you are also the one that hurts the most because a part of you is gone. When Ron died I never believed I would ever smile again and want to go on. I knew he was in a better place and out of pain, but why so young? I know Dennis is in a better place and out of pain and believe me when I say that you will smile again and be able to laugh when you think of the funny wonderful memories Dennis left in your lifes. When you hold those grandchildren and see the funny little parts of Dennis in them God is showing you that life goes on. Dennis left all of us memories, laughter and a smile that was so very Dennis. He was a loving person that helped you grow into the people person that everyone has talked about. I was priviledged to know you both and to hear a lot of your life stories.
    He will definately be missed but never forgotten. Gods blessings on you and the girls as you continue holding onto those happy memories of a wonderful father and husband and friend.
    Love you
    Carol (Wallace) Williams

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  65. We, Robert, Linda & Laurence--along w/ Daniel Aramburo, were shocked and saddened to hear of Dennis's passing away. We know he is in a better place now; he's in GOD's hands. We will surely miss his upbeat personality, always encouraging and positive. We just can't believe he's gone. We're indeed very saddened, and our love and prayers go to you, Ann, Lindsey, Ashley and family! If I may, I want to share a song that came to mind upon hearing of Dennis' untimely departure: "Precious Lord, Take My Hand".

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  66. composed by Thomas A. Dorsey (1899-1993), after sequestering himself to mourn his son's untimely death:

    "Precious Lord, take my hand, Lead med on, let me stand; I am tire, I am weak, I am worn. Through the storm, through the night, Lead me on to the light, Take my hand, precious Lord, lead me on.

    When my way grows drear, Precious Lord, linger near, When my life is almost gone; Hear my cry, hear my call, Hold my hand lest I fall; Take my hand, precious Lord, ledad me on.

    When the darkness appears, and the night draws near, When the day is past and gone...At the river I stand, Guide my feet, hold my hand...Take my hand, precious Lord, lead me on!"

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  67. I wasnt sure what to say or if I should even blog because Rory and I didnt know Dennis very well but I proudly say we knew him well enough to know that he would have done anything for us if we would have asked. Thats just the kind of person he was. Ann, you were a lucky woman to have him in your life.

    We will see you again and with smiles on our faces for sure! You are missed deeply by all that knew you. I will miss seeing him up on stage wiggling his fingers to get you to participate!! ;o) That always made me smile.

    See you later Dennis, save us a spot!!

    Rory and Sarah Word

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  68. To Ann, in memory of a Great Man.
    Dennis. I remember when we met, it was in the early '90s, I was very young just out of highschool. Even though My friends and I were wet behind the ears, you always treated us as equals, and that was so refreshing to see from some one so successful in buisness, and so willing to teach all that he knew about it.
    And when we fell away from that buisness there were no hard feeling. Then when my wife and i came back to the buisness in 2001, It was like we never left and we were treated like family again, that was so heart felt. We went though some great changes with Phil moving and being left in Phx alone but that never stoped Dennis from calling every once in a while to check on us. This always gave me hope that anything was possible with this Team, this is my hope that some day, I will be able to give that same amount of love, hope and respect to any one I meet.
    To Ann, "words are empty vessels untill filled with love." I dont know who said it but it is so true. And the words that are said by freind this week are all filled to over flowing with love for you and the girls. Remember 1 Corinthians 15:54 With Love, Eric and Jennifer Froreich

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  69. You were a servant of the Lord. What a wonderful man you were. You helped so many and asked nothing in return.You always had a warm smile and always willing to serve.You will be remember by the beautiful things you did. I am so honored I was able to travel and play with you and your beautiful wife Ann.You will always be in my heart..

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  70. Dearest Dennis,

    For as long as I can remember you have been there... As a little girl, I remember my parents putting me to bed before they had meetings at the house. People would come and go but I would always know the second you arrived by hearing that classic chuckle of yours. It is truly amazing how much the small things about a person can bring so much comfort in times like these...

    It seems like yesterday our families and friends were laughing by the pool at the Phoenician or walking around different theme parks in Florida for the achievers trip. We have all made so many memories with you over the years and they will not only be remembered but cherished in our hearts forever.

    Dennis, it is extremely hard seeing the impact your absence has had on my parents... You have been an amazing friend to them over the years and for that I am forever grateful.

    I love you Dennis, and always will.

    With all my love,
    Paige Fredricksen


    "Death is not the last sleep, it is the final awakening."
    -Walter Scott

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  71. My uncle was a great man, always caring and always there for you.

    The memories of water skiing at Imperial Oasis, going fishing (and always getting sea sick), taking boating tours or the harbor, riding around in the 280Z with the plates Z2THDR, going to Padre Games, listening to Moody Blues on 8 Track, Chirstmas in Thousand Oaks, meets with the girls, Over The Line tournaments, rocking out with headphones while getting my teeth worked on, and many more will always be with me. He was very important to me and always there when things didn't go as planned.

    I know he is with the Lord and was a man of God. He will be dearly missed, and was deeply loved by all that knew him. I look forward to seeing him in heaven.

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  72. Daddy,

    I'll probably miss you each day until I see you again in heaven. When I see you there I'll run and jump into your arms and hug you so tight. I'll tell you how much I've missed you, how much I love you. For me the hardest part about all this is that I did not get a chance to say goodbye. I miss you so much already. I wish we could've had a few more adventures together. I wish you could be here to walk me down the aisle whenever I get married, and do the father daughter dance with me. I had the song all picked out. To see your first grandbaby Faith when she is born and see what an amazing mom Ashley will be. I wanted to travel the world with you, go to more padres games together, go snow skiing again, go fishing with you on our dingy, and lounge by the pool with you. I am so greatful for all the times we got together. So much more time than most kids get! You were an amazing dad, man, role model, and hero. You are one of my best friends and I miss you so much. I miss snuggling with you while watching a movie, your laugh, etc.

    We were going through your photo albums to day. I picked out so many pictures of you having so much fun. Dad thanks for always being there for me. For allowing me to pursue my dreams and purpose in life. Encouraging me to step out on faith. For believing in me even when I did not. I really wanted you to be here to see me succeed in life. Really living out my purpose. Dad I want to make you so proud of me. I can't wait to be near you again. I miss you.

    It's been amazing to see all the great friendships you and mom have developed over the years. You'd be so happy with how much the people you loved are stepping up to help mom, Ashley, and I out. I think you had no idea how many people your servant's heart touched. Your positive attitude, kindness, loyalty, integrity, faith, and dependability was your witness. I loved how much you cared about others and wanted them to achieve success. You loved believing in someone and helping them to reach their goals. I loved hearing you speak with passion and a sense of urgency.

    I'll miss you so dearly until I see you there. I'm going to do my best to emulate your positive attitude and outlook on life. I want pass along your servants heart and genuine care for people. Daddy I'll see ya at your party Saturday. I'm gonna pick out some of your favorite tunes and can't wait to see all your amazing friends.

    P.S. I love that you lived your dreams and that you never gave up!
    You Daughter Lindsay Carrillo

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  73. Dennis,
    I remember working with you in getting things ready for functions and how much excitment you had. I also remember how nervous you used to get before taking the stage but, as soon as you got up there how you and Ann would just take it over with that same excitement. Carol and I always enjoyed working and being around you and watching how much you cared about people. You always took the time to be giving which is rare these days.
    Ann our hearts are with you and your family. Sorry for not signing into the blog sooner but I just read about Dennis passing this morning.
    Go with God Dennis. You'll be greatly missed.
    Allen and Carol Goins

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  74. Ann, each morning when I wake up I think of you and Dennis; it is still hard to believe he is past on. I cannot imagine what you are going through, for his path of life has certainly made a quick turn, a turn you cannot follow. My heart pains for you, those left behind. His name is offered up in prayer at our church services, which I have been able to attend daily. We're here for you. Love to you and your family. GOD bless!

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  75. Dennis,
    It has been awhile since we last saw each other.Moving so far away was a tough decision. I never doubted that we would have a conversation again. I know now that will be in heaven but meanwhile you will be reunited with my beloved husband Jerry. I wanted you to know how much he loved and respected you. When going through health challenges of his own you
    stood beside him with your friendship, encouragement and acceptance when others shyed away. It showed what a godly man you were and he was so grateful for you. While I have sadness for Ann and the girls for their too soon loss, I am singing for Joy that you are with the Lord and can go fishing with Jerry
    to slay the big ones. You and Ann will always have a special place in my heart.Thank you for all the things you taught us and the great example you set.
    Love, Linda Trimble Boles

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  76. Dennis

    It is said that The life of one we love is never lost...Its influence goes on through all the lives it ever touched. You and Ann have touched so many lives and you will live on in all of us. Thanks for your leadership and great example. You were always smiling, no matter what health problems you were having. We will miss you! Love Rick & Karen Gores

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  77. It was with shock and sadness we heard of Dennis's passing. We remember with fondness his love of Ann, Lindsay and Ashley. You could tell the girls adored him, fondly calling him Daddy. We remember the day we helped Dennis and Ann move from Escondido to San Marcos (in the rain, hauling that really heavy pool table and jacuzzi) and the love he shared with his niece and nephew who were living with them then. Those two kids and their friends worked so hard that day. . .we were in awe of their love and commitment to their aunt and uncle and vice versa.
    Ann and Dennis, this song always reminded us of the two of you and your love of each other and God. . .
    I will stand with you, we will fight the fight
    I will stand with you, through the darkest night
    I will stand with you, as God gives us might
    Hand in hand, hand in hand, we will stand.
    When life can overwhelm you and the tears well in your eyes
    and you wish you could find a place to run away and hide
    I'll be there to hold my hand out and to gently lead you home
    In the family of God you're not alone.
    When you're tired of the battle, feeling worn out to the bone
    and you feel like you've been fending off the arrows on your own
    close your eyes and see the angels who are fighting brave and bold
    in the family of God you're not alone.
    Hand in hand we will stand.

    Love, Tom and Terry Lange

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  78. God saw you getting tired,
    When a cure was not to be.
    So He wrapped his arms around you,
    and whispered, "come to me."


    You didn't deserve what you went through,
    So He gave you rest.
    God's garden must be beautiful,
    He only takes the best


    And when I saw you sleeping,
    So peaceful and free from pain
    I could not wish you back
    To suffer that again.

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  79. Uncle Dennis,

    It's amazing to look back and remember all the memories I have which you were at the forefront of...from Achievers trips (calling me a sissy for being timid towards a rollercoaster), to poolside chats and volleyball games at the Phoenician. U honestly had no choice but to become family, especially since Lindsay and Ashley are dearest friends of mine.

    Of all the memories the one thing that stands out in my mind is your infectious ability to make the toughest of men cry with laughter, and women smile simply by you walking into a room. I remember as a little girl, you and Ann visiting the house for meetings; of all the friends that would visit, you both were the only people that I could distinctively tell were present...I could do so by the laughter that quickly filled the room! No one made my family laugh like you both did. A quality that’s rare in life, and one that will truly be missed.

    Uncle Dennis was also a man of patience. There were many occasions where Lindsay and I would wreak havoc upon the Carrillo household with our sugar-high antics! Instead of telling us to shut up, Uncle Dennis would always try to the best of his ability to join in the stupidity; most of the time he was successful simply by adding laughter to the equation.

    It's been a hard struggle to try and grasp the reasons why such an amazing father, uncle, husband, and soon to be grandfather was taken from this world...my conclusion is that God needed a good laugh and Uncle Dennis was the only man that could give it to him.

    My thoughts and prayers are with my family: Ann, Lindsay, Ashley and Dale...I love you all and my prayers are with you!

    All My Love,
    Brittany Fredricksen

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  80. Ann, Ashley, and Lindsay,

    Our prayers are with you an all those who loved Dennis. We will always remember Dennis...

    Lived with intention
    Walked to the edge
    Listened hard
    Laughed (what a wonderful laugh!)
    Played with abandon
    Continued to learn
    Loved well
    Appreciated his family and friends
    Chose with no regrets
    Did what he loved
    Loved his Lord
    Lived as if this was all there was

    He will be truly missed.

    ~ Clayton and Natha Kraft

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  81. Dear Dennis and Ann and family: Love you so much.
    This is note to Dennis; a loving mentor, friend and masterful encourager:
    "Through my daughter Malinda's sobs on the telephone I learned of your newest address in Heaven." My knees gave way from under me. My mind darted to Ann, Linsday and Ashley! Then to my son, James, who I knew would take the news very hard. "Oh, honey make sure James is sitting down and not driving when you tell him of Dennis' latest Journey." "Okay mom," love you.
    It is through spontaneous tears mixed with Oceans of gratitude to you Dennis for believing in me and my little trinity of 3 -- single mom family. You never gave up and I will endeavor to make you proud. Thank you always for your prayers when I asked for them.
    You would be - I am sure you are, as I am -- so glad to see Ann, Lindsay and Ashley and your mom so thoroughly calm and completely watched over by God and filled with His Strong Spirit of confidence and love that you are so loved, still very much alive and completely pain-free at last.
    Now you can watch over all of us that much better! And the fishing must be amazing up there. We love you and are so grateful to have known you here. We'll see you again in due time. Meanwhile, Love yah! ...so much. We salute you skipper. Teresee' Henney and family. XXX+++

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